Past, Present and Future

Tonight at midnight it will bring to a close 2010.

Where has the time gone?

It's been a weird, hard, and crazy year.

I've come to realize things do change.  But they don't do it on their own.  I've been in this industry for a long time.  I've paid my dues, or I am still paying my dues, but it's all worth it.

I have alot of fans.  It been a huge undertaking, but the grass roots are there.

I've done things that most wouldn't even consider.  I have no regrets.

Things are the way they are for a reason.  Or so we are told.  I guess it really depends on how you perceive things.  Who you listen too.  The choices you make.  And the balls to go after it.

I have been the brunt of jokes, I've made jokes and I have come to accept that some people think I am a man. Ya you read that last bit right.  One night I was out with my son.  I told him some people think I am a trans sexual.  He said, "Mom, Fuck em.  If they think your a trannie than it will be the best post op they have ever seen. And use it to your advantage"  It made me giggle.  But in the same right it's a valid point.

We are who we are.  You can't have fans without having the hater's there too.  I use to take to heart all the derogatory, demeaning and harsh words or reviews.  But what I really needed to do was have a little faith in myself.  Not worry so much about others and the rest will fall into place.

I'm looking forward to moving forward....

I have goals, dreams and along with that reality of a world that is need of some desperate improvement.

I've have worked with alot of talented people this year.  I worked with some whiny bitches (and some aren't even female). 

I realize time marches on.  What it really comes down to?

Friends, Family, and Fans.  Some people that have become part of my 'new family' an extended family of sorts.

I hope this new year brings forth the changes that are needed so desperately for this country.  I hope that the country can stop taking sides.  Do what is best for us as a whole, instead of a part. 

If we took all that money we spent on frivolous ear marks, money spent on a useless war, bailing out our banking system etc, we could feed, cloth and shelter every human being on this planet.

Take all that money donated every year and actually come up with a cure.  Stop letting ignorance guide you. 

But one thing is for sure, a new year is beginning.  What side are you on?

I guess if I had any resolutions they would be:  Spend more time with family, stop smoking, and maybe hit the gym.

Things I can't resolve, well  ummm they will work themselves out.  I just need to be more patient.  Another one right there, I am the most impatient person you probably know.

Thanks to everyone who has made this an exceptional year, despite all the mayhem that has incurred.

Be careful out there tonight.  Be safe.

Happy New Year

Maddy

Penthouse and Me

I can hardly believe that I know someone personally who works for Penthouse.

Do you?

Her name is Lainie Speiser.

My first contact with Lainie came from my PR Agent at the time, Erika Icon, Owner of The Rub PR.  Erika emailed, and called to say that Lainie was going to interview me for her new book.

So I emailed Lainie and we coordinated a day and time to speak.

Now if you don't know Lainie is jewish.  So the day I called her to interview she had to go to temple.  But she did say she'd call me in a a half hour.  And sure enough she did.

I won't give away any of the details of the interview.  But you will be able to buy it this June from Amazon.

If you click on the cover shot you will be taken to the pre order page at Amazon.  The book's pre order price on Amazon is $13.59, for the paper back version.  Amazon is guaranteeing the pre order price also.

Wow a lot of pre ordering in that paragraph. Leave it to me to use a word repetitively.

I don't know what the cost of a hard cover.  Oh I just said, "Hard".... giggle giggle

This book I hope is a hot seller for Lainie.  I believe I may even get my book autographed by her, if she is so gracious to do so.  This is my first book, so I'm REALLY excited about it.

I've done a lot of interviews for reviewers, but never a book.

This weekend is Christmas.

What are you hoping to receive?

Here's a little photo present of Jenny and Dai!  You can see their "Merry Christmas" present to each other.  So I guess this is my official Christmas card as well.

Ok here is another one.  But for this one pull out your 3D glasses.  This is from the upcoming release of Oral Servitude 3 in 3D.

Here is the cover.  Here's a hint for you.  If you click on the cover it will take you to my site.   You can buy it there for now.  But it will it finer retailers on January 31, 2011.  So until then I'm your only connection in getting this.   When you purchase it through me included is a pair of 3D glasses, Lube provided by one of my biggest sponsor's Wet Personal Lubricant

Here's a shot of Rachel rocking the wet..... Your welcome!

O and one of my branded condoms provided by my sponsor over at Rip N Roll.  Don't forget to check out the slogan on it when you receive it.  I will also Autograph the dvd cover for you.

So tell me this.... Have you been naughty or nice?

Merry Christmas everyone!  Have a safe and happy holiday.  Spend some time with friends, family and those you can't get enough of.  Kick back have a beer or two.  Or whatever your poison may be.  Be safe and play hard.

Maddy

So this is Christmas?

Well in a few days it will be Christmas.

There are lots of kiddies hoping for that one present they couldn't live without.  Hoping that the big fat jolly man won't fuck it up.  No pressure though.

Seemingly there are a certain amount of people, especially women who get a little testy if they don't receive what they were looking for.  Most of the time it has to do with a diamond.  Yea that's it give her diamonds, that will shut her up.... haha

And since it is that season here's a picture of a pajama outfit a fan sent me.

I look cute right?

Here's another, I know you can't see the top of my feet but the booties I'm wearing match the pants.  I thank this fan very much.  He knows I love my pussy with my beer.  Notice my left hand.  I guess it would be right if your looking at it.

And of course Hamilton.  He is every where you are.  Well, because I think he has 'mommy issues' or something.

Back to Christmas.

Most people starting seeing the jolly fat man show up in our lives when Coke (Coca Cola) commissioned an artist to create 'SinterKlaas' to use on their product during the holidays.  So here is the link about Santa's history if you care to catch up.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Santa_Claus

Because of "Santa" everyone who teaches their kids not to lie is just being hypocritical.  Why?  Because you are lying to their face.  Right now parents use it as a behavioral modification tool especially around the holidays.  Thus, "He know's if you've been naughty or nice"  although I don't think this phrase is what you think it means.  Haha  Now, this is naughty.....

Yea Jenny and Dai don't waste anytime.

This is nice....

This was taken a few months ago.... O too turn back time so there is no SNOW on the ground. 

I don't like that family and friends feel obligated to buy me things on Christmas.  I'm not saying it isn't appreciated, it DEFINITELY is.  But, in the same right holidays aren't about the material things you can buy someone.  If your going to celebrate the holidays why pressure everyone into spending money?  You can buy someone a gift any day of the year.  Even then simple things are always better.

Maybe it's because I'm not a materialistic person.  I don't need all the new fads, or trends to make me happy.  Good friends, Good times, and your sincere honesty is enough for me.  Plus, there are so many out there, i.e. homeless, less fortunate etc who are barely getting by.  Trying to figure out where they are going to sleep for the night, how they are going to feed their family or pay their rent.

Doesn't it make you feel like a shit for wanting that IPad?

If you want to do something nice or your set on buying a gift.  Why not donate some things to your local food bank, homeless shelter or animal shelter?  This is truly what the holidays are about, giving to others.  If you see a homeless person, buy him a warm meal, a warm coat and gloves.  Give  him a little money to spend how he or she chooses.  Maybe teach your children the holidays are about giving too and helping others.  There are very few children who will give their gift up, even though they know the child down the street can afford it.

Instead most kids are so spoiled anymore with all the technology.  They will learn sooner or later there is no Santa then where will you be?  Having a pre teen who uses the holidays to guilt you into buying them an expensive gift.

I used to enjoy the holidays when no one felt pressured to buy for everyone.  When you could just hang out with your family and friends.  Eat, drink and be merry without all the pressures.     Peace and love, holiday cheer everyone.....

Maybe some of this.....

 Then we'd all be cheerful, unless your into the Green, then you might enjoy this....

Either way, I'll stop ranting now.  Enjoy your holiday.  Be safe and Be warm

And give the gift of love, charity or hope, after all isn't that what truly matters?

-Maddy

Rachel Made My Dog Stop Eating

Okay here we go....


So here is the reason my dog wouldn't eat...

Yep, you guessed it Rachel Lynn Porter!  I love it when she is goofy.

 

 Okay here's another, you didn't have to beg.  But Hamilton there was begging from the time she walked in the door.  You could say he was trying to schmooze her almost.  

Ok back to the story.  Hamilton the puppy that he still thinks he is.  When I got Hamilton I realized he came with a myriad of issues.  Considering his previous owner (a hoarder of sorts) which I rescued him from had instilled some bad habits in him over the 9 1/2 months she had him.  One was the constant begging of food, especially while your in the kitchen.

So I decided to train Hamilton to understand that treats aren't for in the kitchen.  It's also part of the reason that Mark Audess (Shown here in his cartoon form)

Thinks he is Darth Vader now.  Yea you heard me right Darth Vader.

Here he is the man himself.  I choose this pose for a reason.  Let me explain.....

 Hamilton is also at the studio everyday.  Why because he has fear of abandonment issues, also backlash from his previous bitch of a mother.  The command being used is a hand gesture along with saying "Back".  So when Mark raises his hand like "Vader" Hamilton will go out of the kitchen because he knows he will NOT get a treat in the kitchen.

So then Rachel shows up.

I basically penned Hamilton up in the kitchen with his food.   I notice all day that Hamilton isn't eating.   Even after Rachel left for the day I couldn't figure it out.  Then after talking to Mark, while we were standing in the studio kitchen it occurred to me.  I looked at his  food bowls, back at Mark, then the food bowls again.

I say to Mark with a look of realization on my face, "OMG I know why Hamilton isn't eating!"  Mark says, "Ummm why?"  I say, "Look his food bowls are in the kitchen."  Mark looks at me.  "I just spent two weeks telling him there are no treats in the kitchen!"  So he was actually doing what he was fucking told too!  HOLY SHIT! 

This freaking dog is really hard to train.  I think he is emotionally regressed by like 9 months.  Mostly due to the fact that his previous owner didn't set any boundaries with him and now I am paying the consequences of her actions.  So if anyone knows:

So if anyone knows Victoria Stilwell, well send her my way.  I've already emailed her, but NO reply.  This chick is amazing at what she does and I have a challenge for her.  His name?  HAMILTON.

Here is a rant totally off the wall.  But hey it's early and I'm ramped up on NyQuil and coffee.  There is a discussion on Xbiz.net that is well sorta irritating.

 The discussion in it's abridged version is the stereotype that the "Black Guy" gets in some producer's adult entertainment movies.  What I mean by this is, and I use this only to express a point.  Is the word "Ghetto Nigger".  Well, shit that's politically incorrect but... seriously.

Most African American Males are NOT.  In fact, I know alot of black people who are very well educated and don't speak in ghetto slang.  The producer's think that the stereotype is funny.  And in some respects it is more than just their faults.  Actors like Denzel Washington, Tracy Morgan, along with Chris Rock have all portrayed this character of the "Ghetto Black Man".  That is their choice.  But don't come crying to your fellow Americans with "Stop the Hate", "Stop Using the N word".  Well damn it Hollywood and Porn Valley here is a hint for you.

"STOP PORTRAYING IT!"  How about that??

Bill Cosby said it best when he said "If you don't want to be treated like a Nigger then don't act like one" The big studios in LA think "Well shit it sells. My Parodies sell"  They sell because it's the ONLY thing they are putting out.  Now I know that the average Porn consumer is really sick of it.  But in the same right the studios see the money rolling in.  If you DON'T like it then email them and TELL them.  YOU are the ONE who made them who they are, and you can break them as well.  So either pipe up or shut up.

Look at DL Hugley.  If you don't know who he is, I'll save you a little research.  He is the black guy in "Studiio 60".  He refuses to play that role.  Not that any of his counter parts are anymore talented, but they will play the "N" and well Hugley WONT!  Kudos to him for this.

Even rappers, hip hop artist etc complain and bitch.  Well then stop using the "N" word in all of your lyrics.  Now also be advised that in my opinion the "N" word can be used to describe a white, asian, indian or whatever race you are.  So MAYBE people should not take it so literally.  Take it with a grain of salt.  This will NEVER change until people start enforcing their beliefs, or what they say their beliefs are.

I guess that's enough said, otherwise Ill just rant on forever about this subject.

Moving on.....

So Hamilton, bloody fucker. LOL I love him but he is wearing me down.

So I will leave you with this picture as food for thought, or whatever you'd like to use it for.

Yea I know!

Think about that one time.

Maddy

My thoughts

I commented on facebook today that if I posted everything that was really in or on my mind you would think I was crazy.  I wasn't kidding.

You have no idea.

Ask Mark Audess, he will tell you.  Or verify the validity of things that come out of my mouth.

I can't give you a preview of it.  Just know that it happens often.

So, anyway.....

I often get asked by reviewers, fans, or others... "Who do you want to work with?"

I guess one would be  Evan Stone.

Not for the obvious reason everyone would think.  O come on you know you are thinking sex.  I on the other hand find Mr. Stone to be well versed, and freaking great as an actor on screen.  Now, I don't follow every "Mainstream" film he has ever been in, but I have seen a few.

The first being "Pirates" by Digital Playground.

In 2005 Jesse Jane along with writer and director Joone came to the Great Lakes Film Festival to promote the rated R version here in Erie.  I got to spend three days picking Joone and Jesse's brains.  It was a really great time.  Jesse is a big fan of the DEEP FRIED PICKLE just like me.

And although Joone gave her shit for eating them, it was awesome to see another person who actually likes them.  Jesse is alot smarter than most people give her credit for.  Joone is very down to earth.  And he will answer your questions to the best of his ability to do so.

Joone's face is intentionally blurred.  He loves to be behind the camera and not in front of it so I respected his wishes.  This one was just for me. 

I also look forward to working again with Larry Laverty

This photo was taken on the set of  "House of Bedlam".  Along with cast members Seneca Shongo Director Paul Gorman (aka Mark Audess),Katie Russell and Jeremy Krukowski (aka Bradley Grace).  Larry is a personality all of his own.

He really takes the time to research his roles, come up with a costume and he has great input on the character's demeanor.  He shows up ready to go, knows his lines and stays in character until he is done for the day.

I watched Larry for three days do this.  He didn't break character until the director said he was done for the day.  I saw him meditate.  He really is an amazing man and I look forward to working with him again.

I would also like to see Jason Mewes

I have followed Jay over the years.  I love any role he portrays.  I have a feeler out now and a script to him to have a role in "Possesion" by Mark Audess.  I'm hoping he accepts the role because who doesn't want to see him play a ______??  Okay not giving that away.  But I know if I could get his buddy Kevin Smith on board it would be a shoe in.

I met Jason when he came to the Eerie Horror Festival put on by Greg Ropp every year, in 2007.  Greg will be happy I spelled his first name right, with on 'G' and not two. LOL  Many of us know him as Rev Ropp in these parts.

This was the same year we were releasing "Virgin Pockets".  Which currently you can find to buy if you click on the link. 

Virgin Pockets was inspired by Mars Callahan.  From his movie, "Pool Hall Junkies".  Where is that guy now?  I would love to work with him as well.  Instead, Mark Audess, Jeremy Krukowski and I got together and developed a script for Pockets.  My counter part was a girl named Chexy Grace.  And no I have no idea what she is up too these days.

These are just a few names.  Who else do I think would be great to work with.... Tony Todd

I mean look at him.  He is one scary Mother Fucker!! Who isn't afraid of the "Candyman?"

But seriously Tony is a great guy.  Would love to have a conversation with him again.  When this picture was taken we were toasting to "Parenthood". haha

These again are just a few names.  There have been a few this year who turned me down.  One being "Steel Panther".  I wanted to use their song "Eating Ain't Cheating"  Now, some of my fans heard my plee and tried to help.  But to no avail.  They were in the process of making a tv show deal and didn't want to blow it by being in Porn???  I don't know have  you heard their songs?  And they were worried?  Moving on....

AC/DC even though it was 2007 or so when "House Of Bedlam" was being made I wanted to use their song "Highway to Hell", they flat out just said NO.  What's wrong with some musicians these days?  O yeah.... Napster, and other's like it ruined it for the rest I guess.  Or some musicians really are dicks.  To me it is a whole new audience you've never were able to reach before.  A cool way to show off your skill, but I guess I'm the only one that thinks that way.

Although many bands like fORMER, Best of Seven, Shag Nazty, Sudden Impulse, Aaron Forysyth, The God, SOJH, The Rabies, Lucy Dank and Hyland Church along with many others who are just cool like that and can understand the good fortune it can bring.  Or at least I hope it brings them something.  But at least they have the fore sight, (not to be confused with fore skin) to see it.

Denny Smith and Hyland have both been nominated for AVN Awards for music that they have green lighted for me to use.

So I guess I'm done with this little post.  Or whatever you want to call it.

Rachel is in the house tomorrow... Did I mention that already?

-Maddy

3D Yo 3D

What's cool when you shoot 3D?




Well put on your glasses and you get to see sex in a whole new way!

Well since Pulse Distribution is releasing a 3D Maddy G Movie.  And it looks like I'm the only one releasing a 3D movie.  You've asked, we here at Maddy G dabbled in it and bang!  So,  I thought I'd share a few photos.

Here is the box cover for the new release: 

January 31, 2011 is it's official street date.  Look for it on VOD if you want and earlier peek at the 3D scenes.   It will be a two disc set with a 3D Version and Standard Version and glasses to boot. 

And Jenny has some shit to say about 3D also.  You can find her blog here:

http://regardingjenny.blogspot.com/2010/11/is-3d-going-to-change-world-of-porn.html?zx=f089f3d59f0af098http://regardingjenny.blogspot.com/2010/11/is-3d-going-to-change-world-of-porn.html?zx=f089f3d59f0af098

Here is a picture of Jenny in 3D, but you can find more of her naughtiness in her blog.

So it's morning, and this guy is sick of the 3D around the studio, it makes him crazy...

Hope everyone is staying warm... Time to get some more coffee to wake up!

Maddy

It's Monday again?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0lxGw8GNs9Ihttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0lxGw8GNs9I


This is a great video to start off a Monday.  This person took the time to put this together.  I like the gusto and enthusiasm that went into it.  I know that it is time consuming to do video's like this.

On the other side of Monday always being a sucky day... well This guy below:

Hamilton is his name.... HE CHEWED MY FAVORITE BOOTS!  Yea, he looks all cute and shit.  Now my boots are gone.  Little shit...  No wonder him, Ian, and Nygel don\t like each other too much.

This is them if you've never met them.  When Hamilton first arrived here this summer, Ian and him got into a squirmish.  Needless, to say Ian was gone for approximately a week.  And ever since then he doesn't put up with Hamilton's bullshit like Nygel does.

Nygel is actually a big woman about it. 

To top it off we have this....

Yep that 'white shit' is still here.  And it's not leaving anytime soon.  So I'm sitting here writing this, and reading over some of the blogs that are here on blogger.  There are some real interesting people on this blogger.

Okay for a little while I broke down and played Bejewel.  Don't make fun.  I like that game.  Even if it frustrates the shit out of me sometimes. haha

I hope everyone else is inside warm and toasty.  I hope your dog didn't chew your favorite boots. 

So yeah.... it's Monday.

-Maddy

Really?

 

 

So it seems in the adult boards, (I won’t specify which one) there has been a lot of talk about the use of condoms in the adult industry.

 

It started when a gay performer, who also does straight porn contracted HIV and put the whole industry on the West Coast into shut down mode.  In the mean time they were tracking every performer who may have had contact.

 

Well now the discussion has escalated, because on of the performer/producer has admitted to never using condoms on set or personally. 

 

Why?  Because he doesn’t like the way sex feels with a condom.  He doesn’t believe he will ever contract the virus from a woman.  Thinks his chances are slim to none.

 

He also feels that the average consumer watching adult movies is one who doesn’t want to see them, because they think that the performer ‘has something’ if they wear a condom.

 

Now, I think a performer should be involved in that decision. It is one thing if you are casting a non condom movie and you specify that everyone is tested and the only way you’ll be in the movie is if you do it bareback.

 

But you can’t expect to hire a girl and on the day she shows up and say by the way this is a non condom shoot.  Isn’t that putting their safety as well as the other performers involved at risk?

 

A lot of actors in the industry are couples already.  Or have worked with each other long term.  An inner circle of people who realize this is what they do.  They do behave in riske behavior because they know the risks at stake.  Especially if they fuck up in their personal life and get sick and pass it on.  That puts a lot of other people out of work.

 

I know that there are a lot of performers who have STD’s  on the West Coast that are still working.  So if they show up at your set you are going to let them perform without condoms, because you believe sex needs to look real?  That like hiding your results from a performer.  And that is not only deceptive, by unfair to that performer.

 

Does he or she know they are working with an infected partner?  I thought we as adults were smarter than that.

 

Okay this was my rant for the day.  I’m sure I’ll get some sort of backlash for it.

 

-Maddy

So.... Friday

Well, I missed my "Happy Friday" Newsletter last week, if anyone was missing it.

I actually thought I was going to have a bunch of new stuff to talk about, but as each one got delayed or changed and dropped of my list one by one by Friday afternoon, it was snowing outside, so I decided to light a fire and get drunk instead.

If that fireplace looks familear, it's because I got my throat abused in front of it a couple of weeks ago in the scene "Oral Outcall".

Good times.

I was planning on finishing "Oral Servitude 3" this week and having some deliciously nasty pictures to show you. I'm doing a "Mouth Fucked" and a "Bathroom Whore" scene to finish it up, but this freakin' dang cold / flu thing just won't go away.

Fuck.

There was an interesting review of "Thanksgiving Special" published recently at HotMoviesForHer.com.

Not a bad review... but it's a weird one. Click here if you want to read it.

Speaking of getting some good old fashioned mouth abuse, here's something you don't see every day:

To find out what the fuck THAT is all about, you'll have to visit Jenny's Blog.

I heard that "Virgin Pockets", "Fury" and "House of Bedlam" will soon be available at DVDEmpire.com. They are the 'Mainstream Version' of AdultDVDEmpire.com . That was going to be part of Friday's Newsletter too, but they aren't quite there yet.

So there you have it.

"Happy Sunday", I guess. Haha.

Love,
Maddy

WTF? Cyber Monday Sale?

WTF is this now? "Cyber Monday"?

I thought we where only going to have to deal with "Black Friday", but nooooooooo... 'Retail' insists on milking this thing as long as it can.

Okay... I'm not going to be left out, so today only (Monday, November 29th, 2010) all of my DVD's and Blu-Ray's are "Buy 1 - Get 1 Free" when purchased from The Play Place Store.

The sale is ONLY good at the Play Place Store, because I don't have control over any of the other store's selling my films. Place your order thru my PayPal cart, and in the "Comments" Section of the order form, just list the FREE titles you want added.

ALL my titles are included, including 2 Disc Sets.

Happy Monday!

- Maddy

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I Don't Like Mondays

It's dreary out today.


It's been drizzling for a few hours now.


I really miss the smell of the summer air.  I'm totally not ready for winter period.  I really need to go buy some more long sleeved shirts.  But I find spaghetti straps, or tank tops sexy.  Haven found any sexy long sleeves that I like yet ... haha

All though for as long as I can remember I've never liked Mondays or the cold.  Alot of people, especially women, always say it's because "Your so skinny".  Well, I've been a size 14 and it wasn't any warmer.  So I wish people would stop saying that.

I think I'm just a person who like the heat.  I like being in bikini tops and jeans.  Or little skirts if its warm enough.  But warm to me is 75 and above.

O the reason I hate rainy days and Mondays.  It makes me feel like blah.  I can't think of anything that sounds like it would be fun other than sex or getting drunk.  Or something that makes me not care what the weather is like outside.

\\-Maddy

"5 Ways To Get A Pornstar To Take You Seriously"

“5 WAYS TO GET A PORNSTAR TO TAKE YOU SERIOUSLY”

A Blog by Marie Madison for Rog’s Reviews
And now I'm sharing this one also for those of you
who may have not seen it.

I read a lot of Porn Industry Blogs, and I follow quite a few ‘Porn Fan’ Message Boards, and a common complaint among the threads is how difficult it is to get in touch
with Porn Stars. Or more specifically, why so many Porn Stars don’t reply to e-mail and don’t respond to messages.

So, in this crazy age of Social Networking, where we are ‘Friends With’, ‘Connected To’ and ‘Following’ damn near everyone… why is it so hard to get a Porn Star to answer you back?
Now, I’m far from what most people would consider a ‘Porn Star’, but I do get my fair share of e-mail and messages. Sometimes hundreds a day. I answer a lot of them, but the vast majority I simply delete. Because I don’t take them seriously enough to take the time to answer.

To be fair, a lot of Porn Stars don’t run their own Social Networks, so you might have to do a little research to find the best way to connect with them, but here are a few things you can do to increase your chances of a response.

1. KNOW WHO YOU ARE TALKING TO


Before you fire off a message, take a minute or two to actually read the web page you are messaging from. If it’s a site like MySpace or Facebook, read the profile. It’ll give you a sense if that page is run by the Porn Star, or if it’s run by the Company the Porn Star works for.

This idea seems basic to me, but yet a couple times a month, my Lawyer forwards me fan mail from someone who sent it from the USC 18 page on my web site. It’s not smart to assume everyone’s Lawyer will do that.


2. DON’T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS


While we all enjoy the work involved in creating the fantasy world we all play in week to week, for the vast majority of us, it’s still our job. Like you, we exist in the real world, in a tough economy, and all have the same basic bills.

To put a finer point on it, Web Cam Shows make our car payments. So, if you find me in a Chat Room and ask me to ‘Show me your tits’ on my Webcam… well, no offense, but that’s sort of where my pay check comes from.

Imagine if you were a successful auto mechanic who built his business from a real love of cars. Then someone comes up to you one day, because he recognized you from your television commercial and says “Hey, can you put a new transmission in my car real quick?” Asking me for a ‘Free Membership’, or a ‘Free Download’, or a ‘Free’ anything, is sort of the same thing.

And while we’re here, it’s never smart to assume that Porn Stars are also Prostitutes. Two completely different Professions. I shouldn’t have to say more.


3. DON’T MESSAGE SOMETHING YOU WOULDN’T SAY IN PERSON


True Story. A couple years ago, I was at a Film Festival promoting a ‘Mainstream’ Film, and a guy came up to me out of nowhere and said “Can I fuck you in the ass?” Two dudes from behind me grabbed him and tossed him out into the parking lot.

So here’s a good rule of thumb. If you wouldn’t say it to her face in public, don’t send it in a Message. This applies to pictures of your Penis. If you aren’t the kind of guy who would whip it out in the middle of a bar to ‘show me’, then don’t e-mail me a picture of your Cock. If you are that kind of guy… then well, fire away. But know it’s going to get deleted.


4. DON’T BE A STALKER


Asking me for my cell phone number or telling me what Gym I work out at is more creepy than charming. Also, being a ‘Historian’ is a bit of a grey area. Reminding me of every Anal Scene I’ve ever done is flattering to a point, but it can come off as being a little weird too. So, be careful with that.


5. USE COMMON COURTESY & SHOW SOME RESPECT


Again, seems like the basics to me, but you wouldn’t believe some of the stuff that comes thru. Just like in ‘Real Life’, if you talk to me like a person, with courtesy and some respect, I’m much more inclined to answer your question, or take a few minutes to chat.


Of course, there’s no guarantee that your favorite Porn Star is going to respond to you, but taking a few minutes to think it thru will greatly increase your chances. If you want to test it out, follow the rules, and write me at marie@mariemadison.com

- Maddy

What To Do When The Porn Your're Buying Sucks"

“What to do When the Porn You’re Buying Sucks”
(original guest blog - rogreviews.com)  Since I don't know how many of
you saw this there.  I'm sharing it again)

A Blog by Marie Madison

In my on going attempt to stay somewhat “tuned in” to the Porn World, I visit quite a few fan pages and message boards and there’s a common thread among the threads and it is: porn sort of sucks these days.


Most of the participants of these kinds of discussions typically muse about the myriad of reasons why, but I disagree with the notion itself. This week, I offer my “Top 5 Things To Do When The Porn You’re Buying Sucks.”

1. Stop Buying It

Don’t misunderstand. I’m not suggesting instead you steal it by participating in tube sites and torrents. I’m saying vote with your wallet. If you’ve grown tired of the same old crap being put in front of you, stop buying it. Cancel your subscription, put your credit card back in your pocket.

As a producer, many times the only indication I have as to the popularity of a title or a line, is how many copies are sold, rented, viewed, downloaded, etc. If a title moves a lot of copies, it’s got an automatic green light for a sequel. So, if you’ve been buying from your favorite director or studio hoping that somehow they’ll “figure it out” and start giving you more or less of whatever you like, you’re sending the wrong message.

I read it all the time. “Why did so-and-so stop doing this?” or “Why doesn’t Mr. Director do this or that?” Every single time, Mr. Director’s response is “Well, it keeps selling, so you must be the only one who doesn’t like it.” If you want to let porn studios and producers know you’re not happy, you have to stop buying it. Everyone knows “money talks”—well, it works both ways.

2. Get Specific With Your Search Engine

So you get down to thoughts of MILFs with Big Butts and Little Tits who like to wear pink t-shirts and wear purple leg warmers with cotton panties? Yeah…me, too. Try typing it into your favorite search engine. Get real, real specific. And not just with the look, but with the action of the scene too, since that’s the point. Want your MILF with Purple Leg Warmers doing an ATM? You might be surprised at what you find.



The Internet has become the main point of distribution for millions of solo girls, web amateurs and couples who have been making dirty movies for a lot of years. Millions. Just because you don’t see them covered in the ‘Porn Press’ doesn’t mean they don’t exist. But, they aren’t going to come to you. You have to look for them, and when you find them…

3. Support The People Making What You Like

Most Web Amateurs don’t have the resources to have the technical infrastructure and online distribution enjoyed by the mainstream companies. It might mean paying a little more for a DVD, and if what you like is really obscure, it might mean sending a money order in the mail. But the payoff of finding “good porn” is worth it.

For most of these Web Amateurs and Indie Producers, you’re dealing with maybe one or two people who pay their rent selling clips and cam shows and believe me, they’ll appreciate your business. You might be surprised at how professional and easy to deal with most of them are.

I’m not going to ignore the fact that when you go to the web for niche content, you are typically not going to receive the same technical quality as the “mainstream”, but again…money talks and you might be surprised at what smaller producers are capable of with a few more loyal customers.

4. Demand It Where You Shop

Look, I’m not suggesting you abandon your favorite smut shop. There are good reasons why you shop there—the convenience, the staff and the service. All things you shouldn’t have to sacrifice in your quest for quality porn. But understand that if you didn’t know about this Indie Producer or Solo Girl, then your favorite store hasn’t heard of them either. Write an email (or a hundred) or talk to the store manager. Let them know what you’re looking for and let them do their job in supplying it to you.

When I began in the adult industry over 10 years ago, I started by supplying single copies of my movies to video stores who were filling custom orders. Someone went in and asked for it, and said, “Call Marie Madison.”

5. And, if all else fails…Go Custom

If your tastes are so specific that you can’t find it from a web producer, then you have the option of a “custom video”. Understand, you are asking the model or producer to make something specifically for you, so you can expect to pay anywhere from $100 to $1000 or more for the pleasure of getting exactly what you want. But for many, having your exact fantasy played out on video (right down to the outfits and dialog) is a pretty big thrill and worth the price tag.

Many adult stars offer “custom video productions” and there are tons and tons of web amateurs who offer it as well. So if you’re going to go this route, do some research and really look around to make sure you get exactly what you want.

If you put in a little bit of effort, porn can not only be good again, but actually a little bit of an adventure to seek out. And who doesn’t love an adventure that ends with a cum shot?

-Maddy